What Are The 4 Clues on How To Stop Wasting Your Life
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There was a time in the past where everything was already set up for you to follow. Average Joes and Janes never really have to put much though in pursuing goals because all they had to do was to show up. Noe as we quickly come to the future many schools still teach this to many of our children and when they become young adults to take on the world they find that the world that everyone talked about during those 12 years of school is not how life really is out here.
Many of these young people become confused as they try to use the tools that were taught to them while they were in school only to find out that many of these tools no longer work in real world of the now.
I had to learn that myself when I was a Senior in High School. Everyone excited about finally finishing and getting out. Me I was not as happy because i knew what was out there already. a very unfriendly world where you need to compete and fight for everything you want. Where you need to learn how to use the art of strategy to accomplish the goals you may want to achieve and along the way be aware of those or of things that will throw obstacles in your way.
I knew that the fun was being at school and I was at no hurry to become an adult. How did I come to this decision? It was because of my Father, you see during the Summers I would temporarily work in the company he worked for. He was in Construction so even though i was paid well compared to other people my age which was $14.00 an hour the work was hard and physically demanding. I gained a new respect for my Father as worked and toiled all day. I was 15 when i started working with him and by the end of the day I would be exhausted physically. But that check came in every week and the amount was good for a kid with no bills whats so ever.
I knew that my life will change considerably and that i needed to prepare to be out on my own with no one around to guide me. I had to prepare and understand that i will make a ton of mistakes in life and hopefully i would learn from them as time passes.
I was the type of kid who looked at the world even from an early age and noticed how hard it is. Still i knew there was no way to avoid it.
That fateful day came where I graduated from High School and was sent off into the world no map no GPS just the wind in my Sails carrying me some where. I had no clue but i quickly found my bearings and planned a course for my Sailboat. That of course led me to the Navy, but that is another story for another time.
I have seen many of these young people even people my age who got stuck during the Covid19 pandemic. Many have been laid off from work or their employers went belly up which is sad but something else has been happening during this event. Many people are not even looking for work or cannot find work that pays what they were making. Many have even decided to stay jobless since they are making more collecting unemployment that they did when they were employed.
There are jobs out there but many refuse to find it either they are being picky or choosey or just dont care.
4 Clues On How to Stop Wasting Your Life!
1. Procrastination:
Many of are at a constant battle with Procrastination. If you let it set in it will make your life impossible to live. Your Brain will force you to stay in bed or sit on the couch all day watching TV or worst yet gaming and nor doing what you are supposed to be doing that day. Since covid I can tell that many of us just want to sit back collect a check while you smoke weed and bang Big Bootie Betty and time you want. right now you are living your life and Procrastiantion is only digging its claws deeper and deeper inside your brain. What are you going to do once the check runs out? How are you going to take care of your responsibilities when you have no money?
2. Being Choosey about Jobs:
This little gem could be the reason why many people are home doing nothing except collecting. Because although there are jobs out there many are what i call "Bullshit" jobs. Jobs that pay shit, offer no health insurance and has to do with a lot of manual labor. Even though people are in dire straits they still refuse to work for their money because they believe its beneath them. I can tell you I'm very grateful that my Employer was able to keep me on during this pandemic but if they did not I was goign to find some job any job until things get better. I would clean houses and offices if need be to make extra coin. Stop thinking you are entitled because you are not. you either sink or swim! for me im swimming for a long as i can
3. Wasting Time On Useless Pursuits:
People love distractions! Just look at them! They cant be home for too long or they drive themselves bat shit crazy. They start doing dumb shit like putting stupid videos on Tik Tok and playing video games all day. Why not pick up a book or maybe start looking for work on the Job Boards rather than doing dumb shit that will not benefit you. What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for that silver tray to handed to you? How easy! The days of Modern Man has shown that we waste a lot of time doing dumb crap that will never benefit use in some way or another. Which is why this whole country is suffering from mental illness!
4. Not Adapting to the Situation:
The time has come to adapt! Yes as Humans we either adapt to our new surroundings or we die. Just like the animals in the wild world, They would live in a certain environment. Everyday they lived, ate and worked in the same area everyday then one day their environment was destroyed and the animals died with it. Why? because they were not able to adapt to their new situation. Many people are in the same position where they worked and did a particular job for years and make good money. Now that situation is no longer true and those very same people look around and see the world that they have paid attention to in years stare at them. They see others competing for jobs, they find out that the jobs there are Trash Jobs that pay practically nothing and the jobs that pay well require the person to have certain updated skills. So rather than getting in the game and trying to work something out and live they stand stuck suspended and angry.
Rather than looking around they begin to blame others for there issues. They blame Illegals, other racial groups, people in their group who are doing better than they are. They begin to follow weird people in the hopes that America will come back to the way it was before the Rona. I have to say that we are not going back to the way it was. Change is always good but sometimes its hard! you don't really have to go far to see people acting like Idiots holding on to the past that is dead. Accept the change folks that is the only way out if this. Learn new skills, go to back to school don't just get mad! Be strategic! God only help those who help themselves. that means being self reliant and not expecting help.
In conclusion, these days are rough for everyone. We are all feeling the change whether we want to or not. Stop being a Rock and flow like Water. That is the only way you will get through this and conquer those 4 clues so you can stop wasting your life. Be safe and God Bless!
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